If you are reading this book it means you bought it. If you bought it, that means your parent or parents fucked you up. Because, why else would you buy a book called "why do parents fuck us up?" The good news is you realize they fucked you up. Because you bought this book. You are aware. And because of that, there is hope. You are already 60% on your way to getting unfucked.
Now, we are going to unfuck ourselves right here right now. On this one single page.
Forget about me and the specifics of my story, you can assume one or both of my parents fucked me up, (which they did) just like yours.
The big question:
If someone you just met, treated you like your mom or dad treats you, would you be friends with that person? would you hang out with them again? Would you spend time with them?
For some reason way into adulthood, we feel we are tied to our parents and that no matter what they do, or say, and how many times they say it, we must take it. "Because they are our parents."
It's not your fault you feel this way. When we were young we relied on them for food, a place to live, and we had to listen to them. And that feeling still lingers inside us. That they are right always and we have to deal with it. That we are there's. Now as adults, we still have that feeling in us like we are 7 years old and still rely on them for our next meal. That creates situations where we let them keep getting away with being an asshole. We forget we are adults now.
3 steps to getting unfucked:
Parent stress hurts more than almost any kind. One day you and I will be dead as fuck. We don't have time to be stressed like this. You don't and I don't. We have things to do. Plans to make. Fun to have. Things to create. Being stressed makes our brains go to mush. You are done with that. You can still love them, but you don't have to chain yourself to them no matter what they say or do. You can decide to love them from afar.
or You can love them from afar. or You can create some space, and love them from afar.
Ps. If you feel you're not happy with the value you got for your money, you can get a refund below. After all the fees etc I'm going to make a couple bucks. My goal is to help others fucked up like me. And to have a little fun ;) We forget about that “F” word.
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PPS. If you liked the book and feel it might make your life a little better, please do two things for me.
PPPS. Why the fuck are some books so long? We need to question more things.